Why our kids deviate? (big question for every parents)

Hey parents.. Hello I knw some of you are little bit worried about your children or about your children's future. But are u really worried for your children? Or you're worried for your self-esteem? So... Today's topic will help you to understand that for what you are really worried for??? So as I belong to an Indian middle class family.. There are lots of  rules... regulations.. And yeah restrcition too.. So  in most of the middle class family.... The career of child is pre decided either you can opt for any civil services or  you can be a doctor, an engineer... Bla bla bla..... Wait wait.!! ..their is no place for any Bla bla bla... If you are a child belonging to a middle class family  this is "compulsory" to get  full marks  in every exams... And it's isn't because the competition between students is very high.. It's because the competition of self esteem of each and every middle class parents is very high. In our society people judge u on the basis of your marks.. It doesn't matter with what you are going through in life.. It doesn't matter what you are feeling right  now it doesn't matter that  you're also upset because you didn't get marks as much u deserve.... In short the fuckin mental health isn't important for any fuckin middle class family for us if any thing important to us that is getting good m agrrks in every fuckin exam. I just want to ask every parents out there,Have you ever asked your child  ki beta y r u worried? I won't mind  either you get high or low score in exam.. It doesn't matter to me that you have passed or not anything which matter to me is you my baby... Only you. Naah we don't talk to our child like that we talk to them like..."Wo Sharma ji unke bete ko 100 me 98 aaye tere 70 kaise aaye?" here I'll stop you guys and just wanna ask u ki.. Kyu aaye Sharma ji ke bete ko 98?? Aisa kya guide krte Sharma ji... Ye jaanne ki jarurat aapko hai.. Kaise unka bchcha mentally itna stable rehta ki wo studies pe itna focused h... Kami sirf aapke bchche me ni h  is baat to samajhiye aur maaniye